This week the MK Meditation Association practiced some Metta Bhavana and continued with r Life with Full Attention Course. Here are the notes from the meeting:
Life With Full Attention – Week 2 – The Body
Body Awareness
What would the Buddha make of us today?
– “a Dragons Head on a Snakes Body”. An overdeveloped head on an underdeveloped body
– we are wonderfully intellectual, lots of knowledge and ideas, but perhaps too one sided
– a tendency to rationalise and theorise
Alienation – Many of us feel alienated:
– from our body – through “brain work” and lack of physical activity
– from nature – we are nature, yet we live in a man-made environment & one that is becoming increasingly technological
– through abstraction – literacy is a wonderful thing but may distance us from our experience – favouring thought over sensation
Awareness of the body has many benefits:
- making us calmer and more effective
- more graceful – gives a feeling of vitality and being alive
- a cure for stress and a key to insight
Seeing Life Whole
- our view of the body is often mundane
- it is a machine, a “thing” that doesn’t figure much in our lives unless it hurts or needs feeding
- it is owned by us – the mind, the personality, the “Captain of the Ship”
- the body is the only thing that we know directly, from the inside
- everything else we experience is indirect – from the outside – mediated through the senses
- our experience of body is a unique one. How strange! How mysterious
Cultivating Sensitivity to the Body
- Our sense of what is going on in the body is often vague
- It is likely that we hold tensions within the body without being aware of it – in the shoulders, stomach, throat…unconscious habits.
- Letting go of this is as much to do with the mind as the body
Stress First Aid Kit
1/ Notice when something is causing you stress – noticing is the start of changing it
2/Catch it Early – stress can build quickly
3/ Do Something – come into the body/get grounded or stop something e.g. rushing
4/ Extend Your Out Breath – through the lips like blowing through s straw (5/6 times)
- emotions affect the body the body affects emotions – a two way process
- physical mindfulness is a journey into depth – the experience becomes more subtle & rich – more integrated
- this reduces inner conflict and releases energy & a sense of well-being.
The Body has a Wisdom of its Own
Thoughts, emotions and the body become more connected.
Our body begins to give us direct information about our situation and what we need – not just thoughts.
Second Practice Week
The Health Audit – The Nutrition & Ethics of how we treat our body
In your journal keep a 1-10 scoring system using your own categories e.g.
5 veg a day, 2.5 litres of water, 8 hours sleep, cigarettes, alcohol, exercise sessions.
It’s easy not to notice when good intention go astray.
Use your journal to observe what is really happening.
The Mindful Walk – an island of mindfulness. Try to do this everyday this week.
Think of a walk (5-20 mins.) preferably one you already do. Using your journal:
– describe the walk – perhaps draw a picture
– describe obstacles that might prevent you being aware of your body e.g. people wanting to talk to you.
– try to think of creative ways to overcome these obstacles
– review how it went
Working normally but being aware that we are walking. Not overly slow or rigid. Try:
– bringing awareness into the body & it’s movements
– bringing awareness into the soles of the feet
– count the steps (maybe up to 5) like the mindfulness of breathing
– use phrases – e.g. “walking mindfully” or “walking peacefully”
– appreciative awareness – bring awareness to pleasurable sensations, the breeze on the skin, smell of flowers, sunshine on the face etc.
The Daily Body Scan (in addition to a mindful walk – if you can – maybe 15 mins.)
- Filling the body with non-judgemental awareness – not trying to change anything, not even trying to relax, but just noticing what’s there
- Lying on the back with knees raised, feet flat on the ground, something low and soft under the head. Hands rested on the belly or by our sides
- Feel the warmth and the weight of your body on the floor
- Starting with the soles of the feet work your way up to the crown of the head
- Be as detailed as you can, noticing what is rather than what you think is there
- You will have a clear awareness of some parts of the body, others will feel vague or non-existent. Don’t worry, just notice what you find
- At the end of the scan open your eyes and just rest, with soft unfocused vision
- Do not rush to get up, move smoothly and mindfully
Remember to maintain your journal & to contact your mindfulness buddy. Doing this encourages us and helps the other person too.
